Just running through my past memories...feeling a bit emotional.
Thinking of how my SIL has told me she is grateful to me for helping her but then in real life what has she done to me?
She treated her friend better than me in the sense that she will drive them home most of the times when they visited her at home.
When my mum and I need a lift from her to the hospital - she said ok at first but within some minutes she changed her mind.
She got her 'good housekeeper' to tell us to take train to the hospital...
Come to think about it now, I should have go to her at that instance and tell her not to 'worry' about us and given her a piece of my mind.
I think all these happened because I was 'too nice'.
Is being too nice a platform for others to take more advantage of you?
These people always said one thing and do another thing.
I am getting used to it and also getting sick of it.
Have had enough of it.
I have this tour mate whom I find that she is self centred in a sense.
When a few of us are taking car, in the back seat she will never sit in the middle of 3 paxs as its the uncomfortable seat.
I think it should be right if we can be auto and take turns to rotate seats since we are taking the same car going around the town the whole day.
All these things happened because maybe I am not assertive enough and the other party is not auto enough.
Sigh..........
