Have a big family gathering yesterday....lots of cookings, noises, laughter, fun, with some mixed feelings (for me).

As usual, my mum bought lots of food stuff (can last for a week's cooking)...

Some relatives have bought some cakes, puffs etc....all eaten up fast.

Me..just cannot accept the fact that the domestic helper is eating up all the good stuff..she said had mouth ulcer..got no appetite and yet can 'walled-up' all the good stuff as soon as she could.

This is the one helper who will help herself to eat first before others - 'never give chance'.

Am I petty ?  maybe no...she should have served the guests first rather than eating up all the 'good stuff' first !

I have saw before...when eating out at coffee shops or restaurants during some occasions...some families will eat first leaving the domestic helper(DH) to feed their kids and then the DH will eat what is left on the table...maybe not much left.

Yah, I have saw that scene with my own eyes a number of times.

To think that our house DH is a lucky one ...she can eat whatever she likes and whenever she wants...no restrictions for her by her employer...

Sigh,,,,what to do....that's what's happening around me.