Tuesday 15 January 2013

'Work abuse'

Of late, I felt that I am being 'work abuse' by my bosses.  Right, there are nice bosses around but there are also the not so nice ones and the selfish ones.

Why do I say that ?  This is not the first time this kind of things happened to me.  I regret that I didn't stop it from happening in the beginning.  Yes, all because I am a 'yes' person - everything also yes, also can (without considering the pros and cons).

In the end, I just stressed up myself (well, I am a very easily 'stressed' person).

What this boss has asked me to do is an 'uneasy and unpleasant' task. It would be much easier if he could do it on his own but he has landed the 'job' on me.  I am in a 'complex' situation now.
SIGH !!!
(sorry I can't specify what 'task' is this because there might be people reading my blog and one of them could be my this boss and he would know its me)!

And then there is another boss who would ask me to do things not only for him but also for everyone else  - Sigh again but this task is considered easier than the earlier one though its cumbersome and time consuming.

Well, life is not to feel miserable anyway - that's what I read in Arvind's blog.

Must learn to be positive and optimistic - that's what I am lacking in - will bucked up ! YES Man !

Yes, tomorrow will be better :)









Tuesday 1 January 2013

Difference in living

Today is the first day of New Year 2013.

Happy and Wonderful New Year ! (hopefully it will be).

I recalled some of my past year's experiences:

Ever since 'these people' moved into my house; I hardly had a day on my own (that means alone at home).  Even on weekends when I was not working and on public holidays when I were at home, it does not feel the same anymore (compared to when I was living with my parents and then alone on my own for a short period).

I have lost my privacy in the house - even when I was in my bedroom alone; 'people' just walked in and out of my room freely - yea, I should have set some house rules in the very beginning when 'these people' moved into my house. Though I am quite an 'easy' person; but still need my privacy. Thinking when AND WHEN  would I have my privacy back - that feelings really SUCKS.

Prayed that with the New Year, I would have more happiness, more braveness, more healthiness, more peacefulness, more cheerfulness to live my life...