Precious...

Next time the OL do anything for her 'precious' sons; just leave it.  No need to be sensitive or jealous or feel eye sore.

Ok?  If I feel hurt she also won't know. If she knows she will pretend not to. Right or not.

I just feel that I have to do everything for her...and she will do anything for the 'PS'  but not me.

Why she doesn't want to stay with them then?

The PS will not let her stay in his house..I bet you.

??????????

Disturbed emotions

My SIL has put up some photos on her 'spare wall'. I glanced through all the photos - it were taken with her friends, some with her daughters and mum, her so-called beloved auntie, one with XXX.

I had some disturbed emotions upon seeing these photos - there is none shown taken with our family.
Perhaps she has none taken with us !

Can all these photos say something about her attitude towards the in-laws ?

I felt that my family esp. me have give and take towards her and her MIL too but does she remembers 'our goodness' or we as part of her family ?  Ya, its a question mark to me.

My family members are of less importance to her than her friends, her beloved auntie and XXX.

You know I felt 'kind of left out' not physically in the photos but in the mind of the beholder.

Come to think of it - we have never been close towards each other - sad to say its just 'superficial'  - that's how I look at it.  Maybe someone I knew can tell me its not true ?

I only can say that too much things have happened between us as a family - difference in our thinking etc.