Its Christmas time. How time flies...
Remembered someone told me some months ago that she is not going to buy gifts for someone during this Christmas season. I took her words for real because she has valid reasons for doing so.
Until yesterday, then I realised I was wrong...I simply believed her words for it and there she is -giving that someone a gift. I was not angry but 'surprise' and felt that I just take people's words for granted. I just trust her too easily. Felt like I am 'being conned' emotionally.
Human beings may change as and when they like it. So what's something which she had said she would not be doing many months ago and now she is going back on her own words hmm.
Perhaps during these recent months, their friendship has 'increased' without my knowledge. Well I also do not wish to interfere with others' affairs - what they want to do; what they want to say.
The lesson I have learnt: Do not believe 100 percent in what people said (unless that person is v. close to you) - even so, they can change their minds any time they want any time they like.
Do not be other people's 'victim' in any situation. Must be careful !
I just find that I am 'gullible' at most times - remembered someone told me that many years ago and she was the one who has made me 'gullible' to believe in everything she has done. I was full of regrets after that ! I lost my trust in her anyway.
Life is SIMPLE, its just not easy.
